Application Guide: “Blessed are the
Peacemakers (Part 3)…”
Nov. 14th, 2004: Kimber Kauffman, Sr. Pastor of College Park Church, presented his 21st
sermon on The Gospel of Matthew. Based on the seventh Beatitude (Matt. 5:9),
Kimber spoke on what peacemaking looks like amidst the “gray” areas of the
Christian life. His message focused primarily on the setting Paul addressed in
Romans 14 and how that ought to play out in our own circumstances in striving
for unity amidst disagreements.
- This past Sunday was the
International Day of Prayer for the Persecuted Church. Share with the
groups your thoughts on the video about your brothers and sisters in
Christ who are persecuted.
- What does the Bible say
about Christians being persecuted (cf Mt. 5:10-12; 24:9; Jn. 15:20; 1 Cor
4:12; 2 Cor. 4:9; 2 Tim. 3:12; Heb. 11:37)?
- If you want to stay
informed about your fellow brothers and sisters around the world, sign up
for newsletters from Voice of the Martyrs (www.persecution.com) or
International Christian Concern (www.persecution.org).
- Kimber briefly turned to
Col. 3:12-17 to emphasize that our relationships are to be marked with
peacemaking.
- What characteristics and
commands does this passage tie in with peacemaking? Or more simply, what
kind of people are peacemakers?
- What’s the tie in of the
“peace of God” with peacemaking? What about the peace of God ought to
compel us to strive for unity with others?
- Kimber noted that two believers
can have opposing convictions when it comes to gray areas and still be
right before God (Rom. 14). In matters of gray areas, he provided us
several guidelines to live by:
- Learn to distinguish commands & areas of
freedom. How do we distinguish between the black and white commands and
gray areas? What are issues that we ought to be able to disagree with and
still live in unity together?
- In debatable issues, cultivate your own conviction. What will it look like for you to strive to live
in unity with another person yet have a different conviction about a
“gray” area? How should you share your opinion when it differs from
others?
- Allow your brother the freedom to his own choice,
even it it’s different. What
kind of attitudes ought you to have about fellow believers who have
differing views from you? How should you treat them (cf. Rom 14:1-4)?
- Let your liberty be limited, when necessary – by
love. What are some situations where
you may have to limit your liberty in order to honor and respect the
convictions of others?
- Follow Christ as the model & motivator of
servanthood. How does being a
servant tie into the topic of “gray” areas and liberty? What does it look
like to look out for the interests of others over your own?
- Rom. 14:20 – “Do not
destroy the work of God for the sake of food…” Kimber challenged us with
this verse and applied it to specific areas that churches today commonly
have quarrels.
- What “gray” areas do you personally struggle with blowing
out of proportion, that have the potential to “destroy the work of God”?
- How can you work on
keeping the Main One the Main Thing in these issues?